How to pick up girls (and gain new friends)

After coaching lots of people on this (myself included), I’ve boiled it down to four simple questions that will get you close to most people in a matter of minutes. For this to work, you need to open up yourself and reveal your own answers to these questions along the way. A free two-way flow creates good trust, knowledge of the other and a basis for friendship or beyond. Try it out on some strangers and tell me how it went. But remember, be direct, blunt even – no beating around the bush:

  1. If you were granted three wishes, what would they be?
  2. What are your 5 strongest sides?
  3. What are your 2 weakest sides?
  4. What have you done in life that has given you the worst conscience?

Get answers to these and share your own and you will both know if you have a potential friend right there.

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One thought on “How to pick up girls (and gain new friends)

  1. I do not understand pretty well the number five. May it mean, you will ask for the worst overts committed by some stranger persons in just a matter of minutes?.
    Anyway, for me, a big smile and an appropiate acknowledgement does wonders :-D. I guess that a comm course focusing on teaching how to give appropiate acks would do wonders.

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