Amazing person: Dag Øynes

His brother aimed for the spot a few inches from his foot. He was good at throwing the knife in this game of narrowing the opponent’s territory by chipping it away after securing the blade to the ground. But not today. His aim was off by those few inches. I saw it cut straight through Dag’s shoe, through his foot, up between the bones of the bog toe and the next. Through the sole of the shoe and into the ground. A solid Bowie knife stood vibrating through Dag’s foot. He looked annoyingly at his brother, reached down, pulled the knife straight out, handed it to his older brother and said “Stay right there“. He limped down the hill, into the house, up on the second floor, got treated with lots of band aid, and then he was back out again. To resume the game.

Another day, Dag was playing in the stairs where he lived. He was never really careful and managed to trip over the railing and fall two floors down only to hit the concrete with his head and shoulder first. He got up after a short while, staggering up the stairs. When his mother opened the door, he said in a daze “Mommy, I’m tired, I wanna go to bed“.

We were sitting in a slope making small boats out of pine bark. Dag suddenly said “Geir, could you hand me that big leaf over there and those branches“. I reached for the items he requested while I looked at him. His knee! Holy crap! His knee was hemorrhaging. He had cut the knife deep into the flesh just above his right knee. And now he was asking me for some stuff to limit the bleeding and cover the wound. I fumbled some leafs and twigs over to him and he got going with some first aid. After a minute or two he said “Could you help me up the slope, it’s a bit difficult to move now.

The warriors from the red apartment buildings came toward us. They must have been two, maybe three years older than us, in native American war paint, carrying bows and arrows. We knew we wouldn’t stand a chance. Quick on our feet, we ran as fast as we could to the stairs beside our white apartment building. Dag was a few yards in front of me. Even so, the arrow hit him. It went an inch or so into the side of his right knee. Dag kept running. Faster than me, while he reached down with his right hand and pulled the arrow out. I was still a few yards behind him, puffing, while he shouted “Come on!

It was winter. We were in our usual adventurous mood and decided to walk down the forest slope and explore the industrial area down there. On the other side of the mechanical repair shops and whatnot, there was a heavily polluted river trying to run its course. There was sheets of ice on the river, thick enough to hold a young boy or two. Dag got the bright idea to get onto a floating sheet of ice and try to surf slowly down the molasses. He jumped the long yard and… the sheet flipped and Dag went straight down into the liquid. And he was gone. And gone. And I felt the pangs of panic. Took off my right glove and swirled my arm around down there to see if I could grab him somehow. I got hold of some hair and pulled as hard as I could with both hands. I managed to get Dag out of the chemical stream even though his boots were still stuck down there. He gasped for air and said “Thank you“. And we walked home.

It was my idea. I had seen in one of those cowboy and Indians cartoons – this white man becoming a blood brother with his redskin friend. Time for Geir and Dag to take the big leap. Dag first. No sweat. He simply took the big knife and sliced his right index finger and it started bleeding in a steady small stream. My turn. Shit! What had I gotten myself into. Sissy as I was, I kept at it for several minutes trying to puncture the skin on my right index finger. The skin was too thick, the knife too dull, or the action just too damn painful. Dag looked kinda irritated at me and said “Need some help?” “NO-NO, I got this!“, I lied right back.

What’s that“, I asked, looking at two big packs of sandwiches. “Lunch and dinner“, he replied, “Time to get that elevator fear of yours handled once and for all“. Dag commanded me into the elevator of the first of three tall buildings not far from where we lived. I was terrified, sweaty like a pig and protesty. Dag would have none of it. He took us to the thirteenth floor. Down to the basement, stopped between floors, down to the basement again, handed me a sandwich and drowe that elevator like there was no tomorrow. After a few hours we got kicked out of that building. No problem, We had two other identical buildings were Dag could push my elevator button until it was no more. For thirteen hours. It took freakin’ thirteen hours to cure my stupid fear of a lift. But I got cured. Thanks to the amazing Dag Øynes.

It all happened around the time when I was 10. He was 8.

Amazing person: Lynne Fox

So far I have covered many people that I consider amazing. There are different aspects of each person that makes me think of these people as outstanding. All of them are empathetic, but they cover a wide range of other amazing characteristics. Lynne Fox marks the top of the fun scale 🙂

In 1996 I lived in Sydney, Australia for 5 months while I did the Scientology levels from Clear to OT 4. I stayed with a fun and loving family. The mother, Lynne Fox, is the most crazy-fun person I know. She is verifiable batshit off the rails fun to be with.

It wasn’t a day without surprises, laughs and fun.

She has visited us in Norway a few times, and it’s a real joy every time I see her. Lynne is beaming – with humor, warmth, fun and wit. She is a great friend. She is also a top producer. We both worked in U-MAN back when I first met Lynne, and I saw her abilities up close. I’d love to have her visit Norway again. And I will be back to visit Down Under.

Amazing person: Janne Tørnes

When Brendan and I take on a project to increase the production, cooperation and team spirit of an organization, we do not compromise. We go the whole nine yards. There are team issues and individual issues to tackle. When a key team player is having a rough time, we make sure to help until the person is again a productive, key player – or realizes his or her potential in another place. It doesn’t matter if the issues at hand are of work or personal nature. Be it health, inter-personal issues, mental stress, lack of motivation, wanting to do other things in life – the viewpoint is always “We motivating people and organizations to excel at what they are good at. We must help this person excel.” Always with the person’s own best in mind – because that will ultimately help the team.

Earlier this year we took on the task to help a department in a government organization. Janne is a key player in the team. She wasn’t working at her full potential, not even half. We quickly realized that she and the team would do much better if we were to debug whatever issues she was facing.

The normal scenario is along these lines: We get the person to describe the current life situation and a more ideal situation, and then fill the gap with realistic tracks that will move the person from Now to a better Future. We agree on tasks to be done. Usually a person is having problems with facing the issues in life and to get going on tackling those issues. We must nudge, comfort, hold hand, hug, discuss, nudge, be straight, be tough, hug some more, etc, before the person actually does the plan that he himself came up with.

Not so with Janne. This girl was blazingly fast to Get It. She got into gear, and off she went. She’s simply amazing at keeping the promises she makes to herself. Nu fuss – with her there is no try – only DO. And she went from this half-capacity team player to the key player she really is. Not only is she delivering like never before, she has taken on a new very important responsibility in the team.

Like Silje, she was way to humble about her own abilities and potential. She is now gradually waking up to the fact that she is an amazing person.

Amazing person: Brian Culkin

In this post, I will let Brian himself start off with something really amazing:

And he has a mind to match it.

Brian can do stuff with his body I didn’t think was possible. And the viewpoints he can relate through his writing is crazy and inspiring.

Brian is an adventurer, artist and spiritual thinker. He’s intense and powerful and always able to land on his feet.

With the video above, I think any more writing by me here is superfluous.

Amazing person: Silje Eriksen

It’s a real joy whenever I meet a person that shines with a real warm heart, aware and honest about own emotions.

Silje is a curious girl. New on the professional scene and despite being a fun and more than a bit crazy, she first came across as withholding herself. Underneath a softer exterior, there is a turbo charged engine. She has a lot more power, a lot more ability than she first lets on.

But that is about to change. Brendan and I are working in a project together with Silje, and it is interesting to see how she is gradually realizing her potential. She is one of those people that I can at first sight say “Yes, this is a real executive potential”. Silje has Purpose – Awareness, great personal values and a desire to do good. She has Ability – Competence and Resourcefulness, while the third component is the one lacking behind; Confidence. And Opportunity… well, with Purpose and Ability like this, she can create Opportunity whenever she wants.

It’s fun to be able to inspire confidence in a person that really has the rest of the package. Sometimes the person needs only be reminded of their greatness.

Amazing person: Shreff

While the Scientology “Communications Course” moved me from a raisin-like nerd to socially active, Mark Shreffler took me to the next level. He inspired and taught me how to stand in front of an audience and deliver a message – one that really lands, one that the audience really gets.

Mark Shreffler taught me how to be loose and unserious on the stage, to “wing it” while being highly professional at the same time. He can take any message and carry it across to any audience to real understanding.

Yes, I’ve covered Mark before, and so I’ll keep this short. He deserves his place in the “Amazing person” series. He is intelligent, funny, highly knowledgeable (he’s been around… a lot) and just a really, really nice guy. I’d love to play with him again in the near future.

Amazing person: Ivar Bruvoll

Ivar Bruvoll is perhaps the toughest guy I’ve met. He can take any amount of adversity – in fact opposition really gets him fired up. If I were to pick one guy I believe could take the bridge from an enemy’s control in a war, it would be Ivar.

When I started to work in the recruitment company U-MAN in 1990, Ivar had already been the company’s salesman since a few months. The company was owned by a scientologist, used the OCA test as the primary tool in recruitment, and was regularly hounded by WISE for the weekly statistics. It paid 6% of its gross income to WISE for the use of the personality test – even though the test’s copyright was probably never owned by Hubbard, or after his death, L. Ron Hubbard Library. U-MAN was run by LRH Admin Tech and scientology was the backbone of the company. But Ivar was no scientologist. In fact he threatened to throw the office furniture out the window (without opening the window first) if he discovered a hard link between the company and the Church of Scientology. The link wasn’t hard enough and the office kept its tables and chairs.

Ivar has an unbreakable personal integrity. He never bowed for the personal pressures to make him into a scientologist. I suspect he is one of the very few people having attended a conference aboard the Freewinds (the CoS ship) without being a member of the International Association of Scientologists. The IAS officers kept hunting him down around the ship, but he wouldn’t yield and left the ship no more a scientologist than when he boarded a week earlier.

I was the CEO for U-MAN Norway from 1990 – 2000 and then left the position to Ivar. The company has since changed name to Performia with the advent of a Net-based testing system, and Ivar is still going strong as the man in charge of the daily operations.

When I left the CoS in 2009, I met with scientologist friends to explain to them why I was leaving. I also met Ivar. He was one of three people during my 25 meetings that really got it – why I left. Given the plummeting of the church in the last three years, it must be an interesting show for Ivar to watch standing in the middle of the storm without being a member. As the main stock holder of the company is an OT8 (a former very good friend of mine and a person I highly respect, Mårten Runow), Ivar gets to see the inside view while staying outside.

No matter how the CoS meltdown will pan out, Ivar will always stand the ground, will always do well. Ivar is a highly professional business man, knows people well, can assess the wide range of candidates for any job position – and he is a very straight shooter. He doesn’t mince words and he doesn’t compromise on getting the results he aims for.

I hope to one day in the future again be able to work together with Ivar.

Amazing person: Svein Langholm

Completely off the rails but in a really good way. Wild and creative. A constant stream of crazy but highly workable ideas. Always focusing on the valuable final product. Relentless, all over the place, a duracell-bunny and freakin’ cool.

That’s Svein Langholm. A former professional cyclist turned marketing guru. This guy has done more high profile, high value marketing work than you can shake a stick at.

I have had the pleasure to work with Svein for some 7 years now. He never ceases to surprise me. Although he’s extremely extroverted, he is still humble regarding himself – but never regarding his customers. He brags about his clients, their character, their results.

Svein is crazy. I love crazy the way he is. A meeting with Svein is like a constant explosion – very inspiring, mind-filling.

Amazing person: Dan Koon

I’ve only met Dan Koon for a few days total. But that’s more than enough to put him high on the list of amazing people I have met.

Dan is a legend in Scientology. He was the original character in a film about communication. Hubbard picked Dan to show the world what good communication is all about. And that is certainly also my experience with him – he is incredible aware and present and is a wonderful person to communicate with. He is pleasantly there, listening, understanding, warm and empathetic. He really gets you. Really.

And besides being the most wonderful communicator, he cracks me up. This guy has jokes and funny stories like I’ve never seen. When we shared a hotel room in Denver back in ’09, it was hard to get to sleep. Try sleeping and laughing at the same time.

Dan has been through so much. I was eager to tap him of knowledge and experiences – and Dan shares freely. He’s like an instant friend, and I can only imagine that many have felt it so.

Dan is highly creative with great artistic skills.

Even though he lives in Sweden now, I’ve tried to pull him up here many times. Dan; If you read this, take this as a solid nudge to come and visit Norway.

Amazing person: David Miscavige

Although I have written about my meeting with the leader of the Church of Scientology before, this time I will relate why I think he is an amazing person.

In 2006, only two weeks after I attested to the highest OT level yet released, I was back aboard the Freewinds attending the annual Maiden Voyage events.

It was on the night of the photo shoots. I was standing outside the Heritage restaurant with two fellow OT VIII’s from Sweden. All the OT VIII’s were appointed OT Ambassadors and were to be photographed together with Miscavige, country by country. There were only two OT Ambassadors from Sweden and only me from the Land of Santa. The swedes tried to include me in a virtual group of “Scandinavians”, but I naturally declined. The union between Sweden and Norway had been broken 101 years before. Nope, I was representing my own country. It would be DM and me in the photo.

The swedes were first and just as they were to enter the doors to the restaurant, they said they would tell the Chairman of the Board that I should be the next Executive Director of the CoS Oslo, the Oslo Org. They had taken responsibility for Stockholm as the executives of that Org. Now they figured it was my turn to boom Olso Org. I laughed and told them to knock it off.

My turn to enter the restaurant. I couldn’t have been standing there for more than a few minutes before I could hear his voice loud and clear: “Where’s the guy from Oslo?” I responded “Here, sir“, and with no delay he was about to shake my hand when he said “So you’re the new ED of Oslo Org. Congratulations!“. I was puzzled and said “No sir, that is not my game.“. He pushed on “But what could be a better game?“. I tried to explain. He pushed on. He wanted me to accept the position right there and then.

I realized that I had met the most energetic, intense and powerful person ever in my life. His eyes were focused, his intentions clear – he wanted a product, a result right there and then. With unparalleled presence and with really owning the room and commanding his environment, he showed determination like I’d never seen.

David showed great charisma and he was funny like hell. I was laughing all through the photo shoot. And while joyful and funny, he never lost sight of the target – to recruit me as the next ED of the Church of Scientology in Oslo. He ensured his juniors got my details and that I was followed up to realize this result he had in no uncertain terms demanded of me.

I was impressed by his neatness, his elegance, yet powerful and determined while remaining playful and funny.

I will never forget that evening in June 6 years ago. I learned a lot from that meeting.